You may have noticed that many behaviour management techniques are very similar, often related or that they overlap in some way. They are quite often used in conjunction with each other. This particular technique is used alongside many others and is highly effective. People new to the profession often find it difficult to figure out how to be caring and supportive on the one hand, while simultaneously being confident and in-charge on the other. Politeness can help with this dilemma, especially for newly qualified teachers trying to find their feet.
Being polite is more of a rule of thumb than a technique – it’s very simple, effective and anyone can do it. Regardless of your tone, volume, technique or demeanour, always use polite and respectful language. There are several reasons for this. First, it’s just plain professional, and professional teachers should always address their clients (students) with respect. Second, it’s very difficult for students to argue with a very polite and respectful teacher – it’s even more difficult for students to escalate. Third, if a student complains to his or her parents or your boss, you can rely on about 25 witnesses who will attest that you were nothing but professional and polite, as always. Finally, using polite language shows the target student and their contemporaries that you are calm, confident and in full control. This in turn will help them to calm down and de-escalate. Be wary of insincerity however, and don’t go overboard.
People new to the profession often find it difficult to figure out how to be caring and supportive on the one hand, while simultaneously being confident and in-charge on the other.
Here are some of the ways you can use polite language:
Hint: Being polite is an important element in building relationships with students and positive relationships have been shown to be paramount to students’ wellbeing and learning (Egeberg et al., 2018).
Egeberg, H., & McConney, A. (2017;2018;). What do students believe about effective classroom management? A mixed-methods investigation in western Australian high schools. Australian Educational Researcher, 45(2), 195-216. https://doi:10.1007/s13384-017-0250-y
Adam Green is an advisor to government, a registered teacher, an instructional designer and a #1 best selling author. He is completing a Doctor of Education and was previously head of department for one of the country’s largest SAER (students at educational risk) schools. Adam is managing director of ITAC, an accredited training provider for thousands of teacher aides every year.
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